I help nice guys
become good men.

A proven plan to help you get what you want in sex, love, and life.

“Chuck is one of those men whose personal path and career passions are one and the same. Chuck is committed to his own personal growth and evolution as a man, and he brings that same energy and focus to his work with men. If you are looking for a mentor, coach, teacher, or therapist who walks his talk, Chuck may be just the person you’ve been seeking." – Dr. Robert Glover, author of No More Mr. Nice Guy.

Based on the work of Dr. Robert Glover

Nice Guy Help is a coaching service that helps men take their
recovery from the Nice Guy Syndrome to the next level.

"Just about everything a Nice Guy does is consciously or unconsciously calculated to gain someone's approval or to avoid disapproval. Nice guys seek this external validation in just about every relationship and social situation, even from strangers and people they don't like. By Trying to please everyone, Nice guys often end up pleasing no one --Including themselves." Dr. Rober Glover No More Mr. Nice Guy

No More Mr. Nice Guy

What’s Wrong With Being A Nice Guy?

Based on the book by Robert Glover, No More Mr. Nice Guy,

The Nice Guy wants everyone to like him, so he appears to be “Nice.” However, most of his “nice guy” behaviors end up leaving him feeling frustrated and alone. As a result, the Nice Guy is anything but nice. Here are a few of the Nice Guy behaviors:

Nice Guys Want Everyone To Like Them

He's the guy who desperately wants others to like him and validate him. He needs constant reassurance that he's ok.

Nice Guys Hide

He's the guy who try to hide any perceived flaws and mistakes. He thinks he needs to be perfect for people to like him, so he's terrified of being found out.

Nice Guys Play The Victim

He's the guy who sacrifices his personal power and acts helpless to avoid taking responsibility because unconsciously he fears success.

Nice Guys Avoid Conflict

He is the guy who frustrates his wife (and others) because he is so afraid of conflict that nothing ever gets resolved. He avoids conflict like the plague.

Nice Guys Are People Pleasers

He's the guy who tells you what he thinks you want to hear, then turns around and does what he wants instead. If he is ever "called out" he blames it on a misunderstanding.

Nice Guys Are Sexually Frustrated

He's the guy who carries a lot of shame around sex and co-creates relationships that are less than satisfying. He finds it difficult to talk about his sexual needs and desires.

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A Proven Process For Change

breaking free from the nice guy syndrome

I work with SELECT handful of men one-on-one

You’re a Nice Guy and People looking at you from the outside might think you have it all… a family, a home, a career, and yet on the inside you are dying a slow death.

If anyone really knew you they would see that you are “completely faking it.” Your sex life is lifeless; you hate your job; so you isolate, watch too much TV, look at porn and drink more than you should. Perhaps you have even have had an affair (or just thought about it). You do whatever it takes to distract you from that inner-pain because at a core level, you are terrified of being found out that you really aren’t such a nice guy. So you just go on pretending like everything is just fine…until you explode. Sound like you? Read on.

Coaching Process:

DO WHAT YOU’VE ALWAYS DONE AND YOU’LL GET WHAT YOU’VE ALWAYS GOT.

The coaching I provide is customized to your specific needs. Together we cast a vision, based on your unique values and develop a plan which I help you implement through massive action.

Working with a coach requires a commitment to change. You have to be ready to invest in yourself and put some “skin in the game."

If you want to break free and make significant strides in overcoming your Nice Guy patterns, coaching can help you accelerate your recovery.

:: Gain insight into the behaviors that are holding you back.

:: Develop a roadmap to recovery.

:: Increase your emotional intelligence.

:: Reduce shame and increase self-esteem.

:: Create a life that is amazing!

I work with only a FEW SELECT men. If you are interested in coaching fill out the application form and I will get back to you within one business day with further instructions

The Next Step to Recovery

As a coach, I work with only a handful of people who are deeply committed to making significant changes in their lives. As a result, if we end up working together, you aren’t just a client to me.

We create a team. A team that consists of you as the player in your life and me as your coach. I bring my “A” game and I expect you to bring yours. Anything short is just wasting both of our time. My goal is to help you achieve the very best in your life, your relationships, and career.

I don’t charge “per-session” my coaching is contractual for a long-term relationship — at least six months to one year or more.

If you are truly committed to changing your life, getting rid once and for all the nice guy patterns that show up in your life, then take the next step and fill out my application.

Not everyone who applies is automatically “in”. I put in a tremendous amount of time for each of my clients, both when we met and outside our coaching sessions.

If you’re ready to make the commitment to a truly extraordinary life, I invite you to click on the link below for the application. All answers are completely confidential and will only be seen by my eyes.

After you fill out the application, I will carefully read over it and I will respond back to you within one business day. I’ll probably have a couple other questions I will email you. After that, we’ll do a short skype interview to make sure we’re both a fit for each other. Click here to go to the application page.

I look forward to hearing from you soon and welcome your questions.

Chuck

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I help nice guys become good men.A proven plan to help you get what you want in sex, love, and life.