I help nice guys 
become good men.

A proven plan to help you get what you want in sex, love, and life.

“Chuck is one of those men whose personal path and career passions are one and the same. Chuck is committed to his own personal growth and evolution as a man, and he brings that same energy and focus to his work with men. If you are looking for a mentor, coach, teacher, or therapist who walks his talk, Chuck may be just the person you’ve been seeking." – Dr. Robert Glover, author of No More Mr. Nice Guy.

Based on the work of Dr. Robert Glover

Nice Guy Help is a coaching service that helps men take their
recovery from the
 Nice Guy Syndrome to the next level.

"Just about everything a Nice Guy does is consciously or unconsciously calculated to gain someone's approval or to avoid disapproval. Nice guys seek this external validation in just about every relationship and social situation, even from strangers and people they don't like. By Trying to please everyone, Nice guys often end up pleasing no one --Including themselves." Dr. Rober Glover No More Mr. Nice Guy

No More Mr. Nice Guy

What’s Wrong With Being A Nice Guy?

Based on the book by Robert Glover, No More Mr. Nice Guy,

The Nice Guy wants everyone to like him, so he appears to be “Nice.” However, most of his “nice guy” behaviors end up leaving him feeling frustrated and alone. As a result, the Nice Guy is anything but nice. Here are a few of the Nice Guy behaviors:

Nice Guys Want Everyone To Like Them
He's the guy who desperately wants others to like him and validate him. He needs constant reassurance that he's ok.
Nice Guys Hide
He's the guy who try to hide any perceived flaws and mistakes. He thinks he needs to be perfect for people to like him, so he's terrified of being found out.
Nice Guys Play The Victim
He's the guy who sacrifices his personal power and acts helpless to avoid taking responsibility because unconsciously he fears success.
Nice Guys Avoid Conflict
He is the guy who frustrates his wife (and others) because he is so afraid of conflict that nothing ever gets resolved. He avoids conflict like the plague.
Nice Guys Are People Pleasers
He's the guy who tells you what he thinks you want to hear, then turns around and does what he wants instead. If he is ever "called out" he blames it on a misunderstanding.
Nice Guys Are Sexually Frustrated
He's the guy who carries a lot of shame around sex and co-creates relationships that are less than satisfying. He finds it difficult to talk about his sexual needs and desires.

Are  You A Nice Guy?

A Proven Process For Change

breaking free from the nice guy syndrome

Nice Guy Coaching: Work with men one on one

The coaching I provide is customized to your specific needs. Together we cast a vision, based on your unique values and develop a plan which I help you implement through massive action.

Working with a coach requires a commitment to change. You have to be ready to invest in yourself and put some “skin in the game."

If you want to break free and make significant strides in overcoming your Nice Guy patterns, coaching can help you accelerate your recovery.

:: Gain insight into the behaviors that are holding you back.

:: Develop a roadmap to recovery.

:: Increase your emotional intelligence.

:: Reduce shame and increase self-esteem.

:: Create a life that is amazing!

I work with only a FEW SELECT men. If you are interested in coaching fill out the application form and I will get back to you within one business day with further instructions.

The Nice Guy has several unconscious core beliefs that hold him back. He believes that “if I am a nice everyone will love me and like me."

He believes that if he avoids conflict and meets other peoples needs without having to ask, they will intern meet his needs without him having to ask.

The Nice Guy believes that if he does everything right, he will have a smooth and problem free life.

Unfortunately, when life doesn’t go his way, the Nice Guy just tries harder. Like the hamster spinning in his wheel, the Nice Guy continues to do the same thing over and over expecting different results.

Coaching can help you change that. By digging deep, understanding the behaviors that are holding you back and doing something else, the Nice Guy starts to operate from a place of internal satisfaction.  No longer does he need others to validate him and he gives from a place of abundance because he makes his needs a priority.

 

When you work with me as a coach, we will develop a strategic plan to help you change your life and finally get what you’ve always wanted… Peace of mind, satisfaction in your relationships and respect in your career.

Coaching takes place over the phone or the internet with a skype-type of connection. We meet as often as you need to help you get back on track and living a life of harmony.

After you sign up for a coaching package, I will email you a link to my online calendar where you can set up our first meeting. I’ll send you instructions on how we’ll meet. It’s easy and requires very little set up.

We will establish goals, and you will be given homework to complete between our sessions. I’ll hold you accountable for achieving your goals and completing your homework.

If you are committed to change and motivate to do the work you will see changes happen that bring a renewed sense of joy and peace to your life.

Do you have more questions? Email me through my contact page.

Step one:

The first step is to fill out the coaching application. I work with only a select group of men who are determined to work on their Nice Guy tendencies.

By filling out the application you will receive an email from me for the next step.

After your application is approved, you will be sent a link to my online calendar where you can schedule your initial appointment.  When you schedule your appointment, a credit card is required to complete the application. This card will be charged prior to our first meeting. Click here to go to the application page.

During our first appointment, we will determine the frequency of our meetings. Some choose to do weekly, others biweekly, and others once a month.

Pricing:

I try to keep things simple, and the cost of each 45-minute session is $125.00. We will continue to work together as long as both of us feel the coaching is being effective.

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